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Voyage To Joy

“To learn to play, seriously, is one of the great secrets of spiritual exploration.”~ Rachel Pollack

Children are natural explorers. They see things with fresh, uninhibited eyes that savor and revisit their experiences often.  Working with these little adventurers reminds me that even though I have lived a while, I am not always living.  As an adult, I often forget what it means to just be in the moment and especially, how to re-visit those moments of sheer joy.

The little ones I work with and others who are in my life, remind me that life is a quest, but not one which the final destination is most important.  This voyage is more about the steps, the inventing and reinventing yourself as you connect with others on similar paths.

So push yourself with open eyes.  Smile at the gifts around you and enjoy the view as you climb the mountains of life.

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The Kindness Challenge

When was the last time you took pictures? If you’re like me, it wasn’t that long ago as I was practicing facial expressions in this morning’s “selfie adventure” lol. Chances are though, that you are among the more common side of the population who generally avoid personal photos for as long as they can.Shooting your star moments!

Far more frequently as adults we opt to avoid the photographic opportunities we seek to capture. Thinking that the moment, perfectly framed, frozen in time is better in some way without our presence. I hear the excuses all the time; “not today”, “let me get dolled up first”, “I want to loose a couple of pounds” or “I just don’t like how I look in pictures” we opt to remove our countenance from joys of today with the hope that tomorrow will be different.

And yes, tomorrow will be different, but the moments will be gone. With every excuse, we keep ourselves out of the visual archives of family history that our children will return to and share for generations to come. The photos they will use to describe who we are and our roles to their children will be left to just words.Shooting your star moments!
Not to mention, the idea that in denying ourselves these opportunities, we are also in a way saying that there is something lacking in who we are.

As a woman, I know that being self-conscious about my appearance can be a difficult struggle, but as a mom, I know that to my son, I AM PERFECT. He doesn’t care if I’m wearing makeup or in my pj’s, he thinks I’m beautiful and if he’s like me, he will always think his mom is beautiful. Our families are not looking to see the latest styles or the skinniest version of our physical selves. They want to enjoy the memories of love in our eyes and bliss in our smiles.

So whether you want to loose a few pounds or need a tan or don’t like your freckles; take your mind off those things and put yourself out there any way. Take your mind off what you think are imperfections and allow them to be the things that make you beautiful!

Today is random acts of kindness day and I challenge each of you to be kind to yourself!Shooting your star moments!

Remember: “you may not be perfect, but you are an original, limited edition!”~author unknown

The WHY……

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Yesterday, I read a blog by a popular photographer (who also happened to be a military spouse).  In her post, she talked about the struggles she faced rebuilding her business in new markets  and how she almost gave up.  This definitely hit home for me, moreso because I’m still building my brand and will probably be facing a move within the next year. 

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Sad, I know, but it is what military life is all about.  Packing up and starting fresh in a new place….

But I digress.  In the blog she mentioned the difficulties she had gaining momentum and the impairment changing her fee schedule had on her confidence and I could definitely relate!  Although I have not had to experience this first hand yet (I know it’s coming), I could relate on the level of confidence. 

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In a business where you are only as good as your last session, you find yourself competing to make the “newest trend” in portraiture.  It’s so easy to get caught up in trying to immulate and perfect what everyone else is doing you forget to do the things that make you unique as a photographic artist.  And although trying different styles from other photographers is a way to help you grow (something we all should strive to continue), it doesn’t hurt to merge what you’ve learned with how you want your art to speak to you.



Afterall, isn’t art just an evolution of the spirit presented in a creative medium? 

If this post speaks to you on any level and I hope it speaks to someone, please know that your view of the world is worth sharing, whether you sing it, dance it, or capture it in a portrait.  Share what you recognized and maybe, just maybe it will tap the heartstrings of someone else!

Always evolving,

Deme Star